HOW TO DEAL WITH BOREDOM

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Have you ever been bored? Now that we have been quarantined and have been ordered by the government to “shelter in place” because of the Coronavirus pandemic, our avenues for entertainment have been effectively shut down. We can’t go to the places we use to go or do what we use to do. We are now gathered together with family members in our residence, or if single and living alone,  maybe isolated from our family and friends all together. One of the by-products of this unprecedented situation we find ourselves in is that we may become bored. I define boredom as being disinterested in what’s going on around us in the current moment. Have you become bored during this shut-in?

If you are currently experiencing boredom, a good question to ask during this time is, “Why am I bored?” Why are some people bored, and others are never bored? I’d like to submit to you that boredom may be a natural by-product of the following life situations:

1)      Lack of Productivity. Therefore, one remedy for boredom is to vigorously go after the dream God put in your heart. Has God told you to do something, and you have failed to act on it? Do you know what gifts God has given you to impact this world for Christ? Have you discovered your purpose and are you actively pursuing it with everything you’ve got? When you do whatever the Master is directing you to do to fulfill the plan and purpose for which He created you (Jeremiah 29:11), boredom can be kept at bay.

2)      Lack of Growth. What is your plan for growth? What will you do to be better than you are by this time next year? You must set a goal for which to aim, and then write down the goal and the strategy you will use to accomplish it. You must be about the business of becoming all you can be in Christ if you want to live a life without boredom.

3)      Lack of meaningful connections to God and/or others. Some people may be saved, but they have little intimacy with God. Others may have lives void of intimate relationships with others. I believe that people who have only superficial relationships crave the richness and emotional depth intimate relationships offer, and the discontent they experience sometimes manifests as boredom. Therefore, if you are battling boredom, seek to improve the intimacy in your relationships with God and others. Spending time with God everyday fellowshipping with Him in the Word is one of the best ways to battle boredom. Seek God for emotional healing if needed, and ask Him to remove whatever is causing you to maintain the emotional walls you may have erected that keep Him and others at an emotional distance.

To summarize, I personally believe boredom is the soul’s expression of utter discontent with a lack of productivity, growth, and/or connection to God and people. If you want to avoid boredom, be productive for the Kingdom. Seek to grow and become the best Christian you can be. Stay connected to God and others in a meaningful way. The Christian life is by no means boring. It’s one of the most exciting lifestyles imaginable when we keep God at the center, follow His instructions, and stay in His will.

How do you combat boredom? Please leave a comment below.

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THE CONDITIONS OF FAVOR

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Psalm 5:11-12 says, “But let all those that put their trust in you rejoice: let them ever shout for joy, because you defend them: let them also that love your name be joyful in you. For you, LORD, will bless the righteous; with favor will you surround him with a shield.” Let’s hone in on the word “FAVOR.” Favor is defined in the Bible dictionary as “approval, acceptance, or special benefits or blessings,” We all would love to have the favor of God on our lives.  But that favor will not just fall on you because you are a child of God. If you want God’s favor, you must meet certain conditions.

God wants to extend his favor in our lives, but what are the conditions that we must meet?

  1. Trust in Him. Psalm 5:11 says, “Let all them who put their trust in you rejoice…because you defend them.” Trust, unlike faith, has an object. Trust means we rely on God and expect He will come through for us and do what He says He will do. Trust says that God is going to be the main ingredient in bringing to pass what we want. Daddy says if we trust in Him, He’ll defend us. Therefore, trust is a means of defense because it puts us in a position to be shielded with His favor (Psalm 5:12). Therefore, we must have the expectation that He will be good to us if we want to be favor recipients.
  2. Love His name. In Psalm 5:12 we read, “Let all those who love your name….”  In John 14:15 Jesus said, “If you love me, keep my commandments.” In Matthew 22:37-39, when Jesus was asked about the greatest commandment, He responded, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind…. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.” So in order to receive God’s favor, we must show that we love Him by being obedient and making sure we walk in love towards the people God puts in our path on a daily basis.
  3. Realize your righteousness. Psalm 5:12 also relays that God surrounds the righteous with favor. Therefore, in order for us to receive the favor of God, we must first be in right standing with God through Jesus Christ. Furthermore, it’s important to know who you are in Christ. You must KNOW that you are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus. 2 Corinthians 5:21 says, “God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.” It’s not enough to have head knowledge of this truth. You have to believe it when the devil comes knocking at your door with condemnation. Jesus said in Matthew 9:29, “According to your faith be it unto you.” If you don’t believe you are righteous, you won’t believe that you have a right to expect anything from God, let alone favor. Therefore, realizing your righteousness is imperative.

When we meet the necessary conditions for receiving God’s favor, we will also get the by-product of that favor: joy.  In Psalm 5:11-12, joy is mentioned 3 times. We are joyful when we feel secure and blessed because God’s favor shields us and empowers us to succeed and prosper. Therefore, if you want to receive the favor of God, simply meet the necessary conditions and enjoy the benefits of being in your Father’s good graces.

How have you seen God’s favor show up in your life recently? Please leave a comment below.

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